My ears are burning
That might be my first instinct, but stereotypes don't create themselves. Then after I found out the facts, well that'd be hot!
My ears are burningMy other favorite was the condescending 20-something male. This is the one who knows everything............ just ask him, he will tell you. His first comment would always be "so, who's car is this?" This would shortly be followed by "do you know anything about this car?" Now, mind you, on my information sheet, I named myself as the builder of the car.............. just to eliminate this type of annoyance. LOL
Well, as with many aspects of marriage, the key is compromise. She likes clothes, shoes, fashion, and jewelry, and I like cars. So, I do my best to learn about those things, go shopping with her sometimes, and watch insipid shows like Project Runway and Top Model, while she does her best to learn about cars, come car looking-at with me, and be able to have an intelligent conversation with me about them. In the end, I become a much better dressed and put-together fellow, while she knows how cars work (unlike all of her friends), and can identify the design influences of virtually any car on the road today.Man.............. you guys are hilarious.
The stereotypes are running free here today. Some of you married guys need to show your wives this thread.............. talk about being in the doghouse. LOL
That said, some of you guys need to change the way you look for women, and the type of women you go out with. I have a hint for you.............. if she is shallow and self posessed when you go out with her, she is not going to change. If the hair is perfect, the makeup (I hate makeup) is perfect, the nails are perfect, and she is wearing expensive looking clothes and shoes........... hint, hint. For car guys, a great place to meet female car enthusiasts is at car shows.......... imagine that. Hell, I met my husband in the Fourwheeler chatroom, talking trucks. LOL
BTW, if my husband spent the same amount of money on cars, that I spent on shoes............ he would have a couple of really cute matchbox cars. If he spent the same amount of money on cars, that I spent on shoes, makeup, clothes and jewelry................ he would have a few more matchbox cars. I am, however, working on getting the money together for a Bedrug for the new truck (we do not use CC's).
In my case, and my husbands.............. a marriage is a partnership of equals. We make major decisions together. He can make decisions for himself, and I make decisions for myself, and we share those decisions with each other. There are some things that he is better at, than me.............. such as rebuilding an engine. There are things that I am better at than him, such as diagnosing problems with fuel injected engines. Yes, I do my own wrenching, and can change my oil with my eyes closed. No, I do not have my nails done. LOL (at one time I did.............. then I would detail my built Mustang (that I built myself) to go to the Pavilions............. and I would ruin it all.............. I stopped doing that quickly). Yes, my husband does think I am the sexiest thing alive.
The main thing I have learned about men, in my 44 years is: When you ask them what they are thinking (women do that all the time), and they say "nothing," ............ they are telling the truth. LOL
Man.............. you guys are hilarious.
The stereotypes are running free here today. Some of you married guys need to show your wives this thread.............. talk about being in the doghouse. LOL
That said, some of you guys need to change the way you look for women, and the type of women you go out with. I have a hint for you.............. if she is shallow and self posessed when you go out with her, she is not going to change. If the hair is perfect, the makeup (I hate makeup) is perfect, the nails are perfect, and she is wearing expensive looking clothes and shoes........... hint, hint. For car guys, a great place to meet female car enthusiasts is at car shows.......... imagine that. Hell, I met my husband in the Fourwheeler chatroom, talking trucks. LOL
BTW, if my husband spent the same amount of money on cars, that I spent on shoes............ he would have a couple of really cute matchbox cars. If he spent the same amount of money on cars, that I spent on shoes, makeup, clothes and jewelry................ he would have a few more matchbox cars. I am, however, working on getting the money together for a Bedrug for the new truck (we do not use CC's).
In my case, and my husbands.............. a marriage is a partnership of equals. We make major decisions together. He can make decisions for himself, and I make decisions for myself, and we share those decisions with each other. There are some things that he is better at, than me.............. such as rebuilding an engine. There are things that I am better at than him, such as diagnosing problems with fuel injected engines. Yes, I do my own wrenching, and can change my oil with my eyes closed. No, I do not have my nails done. LOL (at one time I did.............. then I would detail my built Mustang (that I built myself) to go to the Pavilions............. and I would ruin it all.............. I stopped doing that quickly). Yes, my husband does think I am the sexiest thing alive.
I do get what you are saying, however. I do not have many female friends, because I just do not have very much in common with them. The ones that I do have now, are mostly because of our son. Most of my friends are guys............. and one is a Lesbian.
The main thing I have learned about men, in my 44 years is: When you ask them what they are thinking (women do that all the time), and they say "nothing," ............ they are telling the truth. LOL
Oh........... and what is up with all the younger guys who know nothing about cars??? When I used to show my Mustang, I had an information sheet that I had under the hood. I also had alot of stereo, that I paid someone to put in. These young guys would come up, and start talking about the Ohm's that my speakers operated at............ and I would look at them like an idiot. They would then look at my engine, and ask if it was a V8 (I had removed my 5.0 emblems). I would look at them, with a straight face, and tell them "no, it is a hemi 4cyl, thats why there are 8 plug wires."