Your post stirred old memories-my wife and I just celebrated our 30th anniversary (May 18th).
One tip. commit everything you experience from now on to memory.
My wife always asks me if I remember this or remember that from the wedding. I tell her no since it occurred during a period of temporary insanity. This always gets a rise out of her but after 30 years, she is used to the answer. I'm her cross to bear.